First impressions last. That is why most men would put a lot of effort in preparing for the first date because if they do well they can have the girl of their dreams. However, if the first date goes bad or downright terrible, it is game over for most men. But in reality, it does not have to be. There are ways to recover from a terrible first date and even get the girl in bed with you.
This may seem incredible but it is not. It is only impossible to the man who does not know how to do it. But for the experienced seducers, this is quite easy. And there is a great chance that you belong to most men, which means you are not an experienced womanizer.
There are current 3 tips to recover from a terrible date and end up making love to the girl. And today you will know about these highly coveted secrets among the pickup artist community.
Set up a Sexy 2nd Date
This may sound insane, but you must set up the 2nd date. It does not matter if you screwed the first one. The logic behind this is that if you really feel that you screwed up the first date then you must really like the person. And there is a good chance that the girl feels that same way about you. So it is best to try again. But do not call her immediately. Give it a couple of days or 3. Then call her and set up another date.
If she says no then move on. Face rejection head on and brush it off. It is her who missed the opportunity and you can always get another date. But if she agrees then be sure to increase the level of seduction this time around. It must be a sexy second date to trigger her sexual desires for you. This is the only way to get you to bed after the second date.
Do not apologize
A first date ending in a terrible note can mean that you screwed up or she screwed up. And if you think that you are the one to blame it is easy to feel apologetic. But if you want to get her to bed after a terrible first date then do not apologize. This is a powerful move that communicates confidence to the girl telling her that you are a true man. She will then be more attracted to you.
Most will consider this a negative thing but do not be swayed. Remember that she is not the only one who ended up being in a bad mood after the first date. So, there is no reason to feel sorry and admit fault.
So when you call her to set up a second date, be confident and do not show signs that you regret the first date. There is no point looking back since you can no longer change it. Move on and initiate and she will react positively to you. This is also the initial seduction phase as you maneuver yourself into making love to her after the second date. Being confident and having a carefree attitude is very attractive to women. Have these 2 and you will be off to a good seductive start towards your second date and getting her in bed with you.
Begging is the act of pleading for something. You supplicate and lower yourself and hope that being pitiful will convince others to do what you want them to do. This is useful if you are a destitute in need of food and water. But it is utter stupidity if you think it will get you laid, even getting a woman to like you.
Begging is not in the vocabulary of a confident man. Much more if you are an attractive and dominant one. It is a tool of a desperate person. But you are a modern day Lothario. You are never desperate, especially when it comes to the attention of women. So do not plead or beg her to be your date again. Be confident and tell her that you want to meet her again and spend time. The key here is how you say the words and your tone on the phone.