Profile Basics: How to Create a Profile No Woman Can Resist!
SUMMED UP: Creating a great adult dating profile (on online hookup websites) requires a creative mind, a knowledge of the types of photos women are attracted to and class. Building a killer profile isn’t difficult. However, without doing so it’s nearly impossible to meet women online.
There are steps you must take towards getting laid online. The very first step following sign-up for an adult dating site is to create a great adult dating profile. It seems so simple, doesn’t it? Just upload your best pictures and write up a bunch of crap about how awesome you are, what you like to do, what you’re looking for in a girl and why you’re on the site.
Technically, that is all you have to do. But it’s far more complicated to accomplish each of those points than you might think. After you’re done reading this article you will be able to create a profile in no time. And it won’t be just any profile. It will be a profile that convinces many attractive women to contact YOU.
Let’s get started by talking about the basics of a top-notch online dating profile. The goal should be to attract women through your profile. You do that simply by making a profile that says “I’m classy, funny, intelligent, know what I’m looking for and have my shit together”.
You shouldn’t literally write that into your profile, obviously. It all starts with the pictures, especially the main profile picture. The main profile picture is where you make your first impression. The best photo to use is, well…your absolute best photo! Unless your best photo is a naked pic…
Keeping it Classy in Your Online Dating Profile: An Essential Key Towards Attracting Decent Women
A decent woman has options. ALL of them do. If she’s mildly attractive and isn’t a coke addict, we can assure you she’s a wanted piece of ass. It doesn’t make any difference if she’s out at a bar or on an adult dating site. If she is attractive and has her act together, you’ll never be the only guy hitting on her.
This is the sole reason most guys (we would estimate somewhere around 90% of them) online either do not get laid or end up with some disgusting, trashy girl. We don’t want you to end up with the nasty chicks. So what we’re going to do is show you how to get ahead of the competition.
The first step towards getting ahead of the competition is a classy photo. The picture you upload as your main profile picture should be at least a close-up of your face, if not entire FULLY CLOTHED body. Notice how we emphasized the “fully clothed” part? That’s because photos with your shirt off don’t do you any good. Most guys try to show off their abs on these sites and it’s pointless. So what photos work the best for your main profile pic?
- Close-up of your face
- Smiling in the photo and looking directly into the camera
- Nice shirt on (doesn’t have to be a button-down, dress shirt, just has to be something that looks good on YOU)
- If you aren’t overweight, we suggest including a full body shot with a nice pair of jeans and shirt on.
The main profile picture isn’t the only one you need to upload. You should have at least a handful of pictures posted to your online personals profile. We suggest no more than 15 pictures, however. The reason for that is if you post too many pictures it will make you seem like an attention whore. Or that you’re trying to show off how studly you are. Every photograph you post to your online dating profile should be a decent one. Don’t include any crappy pics.
It’s Not All About Looks: Creating Adult Dating Profile Content That Attracts
It’s true that women are attracted more to personality than looks. That’s because they can become physically attracted to a man that is charming. Sure, looks help get more women to your profile initially, but even average/ugly guys can attract enough women simply by writing content that is engaging/creative.
Hopefully you are enjoying the content on our website. But we won’t lie to you…we’re not professional writers. However, we know how to write content on a dating profile that attracts women. It’s very simple. First things first, you need to learn basic English skills. If you can’t spell, use a spell check. If you suck at grammar, ask someone to edit it.
Beyond having good grammar and spelling skills, it’s essential to write engaging content. It should be interesting. Your profile should convince women that you’re a fun guy to be around. Boring, lame profiles are rarely responded to. We know this because we tested out a bunch of different profile styles. We even ran one test that included a very attractive man with a boring profile and an average looking guy with a killer profile. Guess which one was more successful at attracting women? The average looking guy.
3 Adult Dating Profile Writing Strategies that Generate MEDIOCRE Results
1. Typing up general interests in list form
“I like basketball, boating, soccer, swimming, video games, and fine dining” = boring. No one cares about that crap. Never type up your interests like that in list form. Use more creating wording for your interests. For example, say that you enjoy “dominating inferior opponents on the basketball court” instead of “basketball”. It makes you sound more interesting.
2. Being way too cocky
It’s true that chicks dig a man with confidence and some swagger. But there’s a point where it becomes a total turn off. Don’t be full of yourself. Cockiness is just too much confidence.
3. Being too graphic about sex
“I’m looking for a chick that I can f*ck doggystyle” is way too over the top. Your profile probably shouldn’t even have a single mention of sex. But if you must bring sex into the content, at least keep it classy.
3 Adult Dating Profile Writing Strategies that Generate AMAZING Results
1. Showing off your sense of humor
The next girl you meet that isn’t attracted to men with a sense of humor will be the first. Chicks dig a sense of humor. But they don’t dig a guy whose sense of humor is foul and offensive.
2. Showing off your CONFIDENCE (not cockiness)
Let’s go over the difference between confidence and cockiness. Confidence is when you are proud of who you are and what you’ve done. For example, if you say “I’m educated and know how to have a good time” that shows confidence. If you say “I’m the smartest guy on the planet and better at everything than everyone else” that shows you’re cocky and probably compensating for something you lack. Remember, confidence not cockiness.
3. Not being too sweet, nice, and romantic
Nice guys really do finish last when it comes to hookups. Maybe in terms of traditional dating, nice guys will have more success. But no decent girl is looking for a booty call from a super sensitive and sweet guy. She makes those guys her friends, not fuck buddies.