Flirting Tips: Getting Her Wild Side Out FAST!
SUMMED UP : Flirting on adult dating sites (the best are outlined here) is no different than offline, other than you aren’t speaking to her face to face. The idea is to have her smiling, laughing, and intrigued.
Guy: How’s your evening going?
Girl: Pretty good and you?
Guy: Better now that I’m talking to you.
Girl: Aww that’s sweet
Guy: I’m just a really sweet guy…
Girl: Or a smooth talker
Guy: Naw, I’m not really even that good with words
Girl: Oh, it seems to me like you are
Guy: Wait, so are you insulting me or complimenting me?
Girl: I’m not sure lol!
Guy: Can I just take it as a compliment so I feel better about myself?
Girl: I guess!
Guy: Can we have a serious discussion?
Girl: Umm…sure about what?
Guy: Spice Girls?
Girl: Spice Girls?
Guy: Yeah, you remember the British pop group from the 1990’s?
Girl: Of course I do but what’s serious about them?
Guy: Nothing, I just saw a documentary about them on TV and was trying to figure out why they used to get my hormones rising when I was a teenager.
Girl: Did you have the hots for them?
Guy: Yeah, but I’m not really sure why
Girl: Do I get your hormones rising?
Guy: Of course you do, I wouldn’t be talking to you if you didn’t
Girl: Will you look back on things in 10 years and wonder why you were attracted to me?
Guy: I doubt it. I think you’ll be pretty 30 years from now no matter what
Girl: And you say you’re not good with words?
Guy: I’m not, I just speak the truth
Girl: Sure sure!
Guy: I meant it! Geez!
Girl: Okay then! Lol so what are you doing this weekend?
Guy: Depends who is asking…
Girl: Me silly duh!
Guy: Oh! Well in that case I’m totally free and have all kinds of time to take you out for some drinks!
Girl: Who says I’m available?
Guy: Well I guess I could invite the other 400 hot chicks I’m talking to on here out for drinks then…
Girl: No I want to be first!
Guy: Give me a minute and I’ll think about it…
Girl: You’re a dork!
Guy: Ok I thought about it…
Guy: I told the other 400 girls I wasn’t available because I am going to take you out.
That was an actual conversation we had with a girl online. Notice how he used flirting to get a date. We have a ton of these tactics available in the guide and on the blog. There are many great things he did in order to get that date. Let’s take a look at them…
- Was classy, not perverted (no sexual innuendos or raunchy sex chatter mixed in).
- Humored her (including some self-deprecating humor).
- He was smooth but not cocky.
- He clearly made her laugh.
Flirting is an Art: 5 Creative Tips that Will Turn You Into the Picasso of Flirting
Think of flirting as an art form. You need to paint a picture that says “I’m fun, interesting, classy, and funny”. If you can do that, chicks will be all over you. So here are 5 tips that will make you the Picasso of flirting…
1. Keep comments short and sweet
There’s nothing more annoying than chatting on IM or Text with someone that goes on and on with their messages. Keep them short and sweet. Simple flirts. You don’t have to tell your life story.
2. Don’t be negative
Actually, there is something more annoying than a guy that rambles on and on with his messages. A guy that is negative is even more annoying. Be positive and don’t complain about how much your life sucks even if it really sucks. Nobody gives a damn.
3. Say something interesting
Women like guys that are fun. Talking about the weather, your favorite movies and video games or the Ramen noodles you had for lunch is incredibly lame. Be the guy she just can’t wait to chat with.
4. Don’t let the conversation last too long before asking for a date
You shouldn’t just straight up ask for a date right away. She doesn’t know anything bout you or your personality and she’ll reject you. But you also shouldn’t let the conversation last too long. Get to know her for a bit, flirt and then ask her out on a date or she’ll start thinking you lack confidence.
5. Playfully tease her
Chicks loving being teased as long as it’s not offensive. Don’t make fun of her size. And make sure when you tease her it’s obvious you’re only kidding. Women will get offended over little things sometimes and they’ll hold a grudge against you forever. So be careful.